5th gondolaz..

What do u think?I think he is jealous:P

TRUST.. Hard to build and easy to destroy. I considered, every couples have a very passionate and volatile relationship.. so do i.. plus, i've already placed him in my heart to be my soul mate and i love him dearly..

Just love to share with you, some of my experienced where..
I find out some of my friends, are extremely hard to trust their partners and this can causes a lot of pain and anguish to both parties. What is always play in my mind is, they are sometimes have not found any evidence that their partners have been unfaithful to them. Adoyy..
Erm, maybe they are feeling really insecure kowt~ Therefore, they are tend to questioning their partners every move to ensure their partners will not ruin the plan and the promises that they have made together. And they also get really obsessive thoughts of their partners will cheat on him/her. Isk2..:'(

Gee, when we think of it, in positive and more rational way, there is no such thing will be happened..EXCEPT, if it really shows that your partner is not interested with you at all..'Setakat ym or gv some comments to her/his friends yg diff gender for sometimes, ape salah nye kan??' i dont see anything wrong here.. and again, EXCEPT, your partner is messaging the third party at all the time or talking on the phone for almost everyday..' tu barulaa menggatai~'..:P

Hence, to me..it's better if every individual who is in relationship, trust their partner in any situation. If your partner is cheating on you or doin any undesired attitudes behind your back, just set on your mind that some day, you will get known about their unfaithful and hypocritisme.. So,please try to be strict with yourself and tell yourself not to think such destructive thoughts where it can leads to terrible feeling and then, the things will become much more complicated..

p/s : stop being so controlling and jealous.. Please try to trust your partner.. If not, actually, you're the person who ruin and break the relationship..Mind that.. Sok,sek,sok,sek..'sayang aul saye'..hehe;)

Psycho 2..(Cont'd)

To psycho..

And this time, i shouldn't call him by this name.. everything, has been settle down right after i posted the blog about his 'psycho'ness..hehe..
So hopefully,theres no more such thing from him that can rouse my anger..ngee!

Well,i dont want to talk too much..Just, like what we both hv agreed before, i need to make a post about my apology to him because i've called him a 'psycho'(eventhough,no one knows,who he is..ngee~).. so that, theres no reason i need to discard my previous post about him..lalala~

Therefore,to make it simple,with some help from my sister,fazira..here,i post together the comic strip..(pity me..org lidi je..x reti wat cm aman..hehe!!)

p/s : Im Sorry~wee!

4th Gondolaz..

Shouldn't be this way..hurm2..

It is impossible to be in relationship and not have a fight every now and then.(saye pon slaloo gadoo..huhhu!)..Well,to me,it is considered healthy to have conflict in your relationship at times. I believed that couples that do not fight at all are not really invested in each other and the relationship. They simply do not fight because they do not care what happens to the relationship.. am i right?? So,how much and what kind of fighting is normal?Is there such a thing is normal??hurmm..

p/s: Normally,most of the couples are involving in 'stupid fights'..haha!!Fights that are not really about anything important..they just happen because the couples cannot communicate effectively..esp,ble jauh2 ni..:P

ok,just now,i've read the articles by Phyllis Goldberg talking about 5 tips to minimize the buildup of negative feelings and resentments. Everyone know theirselves and their partners well, so i guess,you can incoporate the following strategies that will work for you and also your relationship!:)

first : Agree to stop arguing and postpone the difficult conversation until u're both feeling less upset. Or step away or put some distance between you and the situation. Take a short break and wait until u both are relaxed enough to return and listen to each other.

second : While spending time apart(like me n sayang..ngee),settle down by thinking more constructive thought, such as..his anger isn't all about me, we really love each other, he's under a lot of pressure at work, this too shall pass, i'm upset now but i know we're right for each other.

third : Get into comfortable position,close ur eyes and breathe in deeply several times trough your nose. Hold your breath for five seconds and release it trough your mouth. Ignore any intriding and negative feelings, Notice how focusing only on ur breathing, make you feel more refreshed.

fourth : Throw yourself into an activity that give you some immediate release.(for instance,call you good frieds and tell him/her about ur feeling, or listen to ur fav music)

fifth : Distraction is a powerful tool and can be in whatever form best suits the character of your relationship. Try humor, be playful or turn the controversy at hand into a game of debate.As a result, you and your partner will be able to enjoy deeper and more meaningful discussions.

p/s:Hahaha!!ym dgn boss about my new post ni..untung ina..hehehe..:P

3rd gondolaz..

안녕하십니까

Yesterday, 19th November (it was abg shahir's birhtday juge..teehee!!),was one of the meaningful day for me during this sem break. I got chance to meet my dearest old friends, Nana(she's prettier and keep on shorter than me..hehe), Aida(she's always lovely), Lyn(makin kurus okay..and getting fair,fair, and fair!jeles!) and Seha(she is real cutie..*weet,weet*) at the KLCC. Well, i felt like was getting back together with old friends where mostly i realized that secondary school, which i barely remember, shaped my life and values. In secondary school, we were social conscious, we were intelectually curious and we were also academically competitive(err,da ans should be 'YES'):P..Most of my old friends, admitted that secondary school was harder than college or university. Yela,by hook or by crook, we need to follow all the rules and regulations with no doubt. Compare the universiy life now? We are more freedom like a bird in the blue sky with less limitation.hehe!!

So anyway,what we actually did yesterday? First and foremost, we spent about an hour talking about everything and anything. Studies, Exam, Future planning, Boyfriends and some GOSSIPS??(nanaa n k.huda kne gossip gak..haha!!) And what was especially fun was to watch these four interact like the family unit they are..:)..But for me, what is the most important is, i spent some of my leisure time during my holiday, reconnected with people with whom i shared precious part of my life. True, it was very nice to meet up with old friends again and keep on knowing and concern about them.

Then, after awhile of our chit-chat, we did catch a movie..'The Coffin'..hewhewhuhu~Kind of ghost story and it is about a young man and woman who decide to go trough the ritual in Thailand where it is inspired by a true Thai ritual of lying in the coffins. By doing this, they believed that they can get rid of bad luck and prolong life. Hurm, out of five starts, i can give three stars as the flow of this story is understandable, the ghosts are horror..:p but im not too satisfied with the ending as it seems like 'hanging'.huhu..

The clock is ticking..and after we watched the movie,it's already showed at 4 p.m. So, we decided to go home because lately, the weather is not too good. Crazily hot at noon and rainning at the evening.

In all, im feeling happy but a big guilty because we don't have much time to stay any longer. The day was very hectic but somehow deep inside, i realized, such simple moments seal the bond of friendship forever. Selain family, as sayang told me, we are nothing without them. You can always count on true friends. They help you weather every storm, they cheer you when you are down, and they chide you when you are wrong. Truly love every each of my friends so much! No matter, who you are..as long as, me and you is a friend..:)

x.o.x.o

Psycho..

To 'psycho'
Hahaha~:P

To be frank, some people are just plan annoying and some of them just cannot take a hint. And there's also some people who sometimes, you need to be frank and slightly indecent.

Well,here i would like to express that im VERY happy to type on about this guy..who, he is in the category of people who you need to harsh with..yela, he got no feeling at all and the 'sgtlaaa problematic' person.

Gee, he is really irritating person when he always suddenly bring up the topic that it will surely make me double temper..arrgghh! You know what, i didn't bring up and i didn't start the subject. It is diff thing if it was me, who brought the subject up. Jgn sampai i speak out and mentioned your name as the problematic person okay..

He text me just now saying that..

xxx : apakah?
xxx : blog pelik2 je..
xxx : watpe nak komen..

Hello 'psycho'~
i never asked you to give a comment at my blog pon okay..NEVER!!!mind that.. i do have my own friends who willingly to read it and sincerely give a comment to all my posts. Plus, i really x need you and who ask and push you to read my blog???xnak,sudahla!!!

Coincidence, at the time he text me, i was talking to Qayyim on the phone.So, ape lagi?'Pung,pang,pung,pang'..I directly told Qayyim about this 'psycho' guy..hahaha!!(soryla,TERmengumpat but without saying ur name pon..:p).Anyhow, to Qayyim, enjoy your vacation ya Abg Long~and dont forget my ole2!!hehehe..

So,'psycho'..hopefully, it wont happen again..But if it does, dont blame me for being too rude.. I did try not to bring out the past and being 'good' to you..But na'ah..you're such a choronic patient in ICU of 'Psychiatry Hospital'..so, please go and see the psychiatrist..

Hey 'psycho', you should be grateful to have a friend, JUST LIKE ME..:P

Happiness~

Mohd Azrul Adnan and Farah Ain Zainudin

My sayang~
Well,im so happy that i found someone like him who willing to do everything just for me without any complaining..And even more happy that im able to spend my time with him. We hv been together for exactly 3 months and it is very beautiful beginning to a life of happiness. I know sometimes,in relationship,it may seems tough..but the environment that i am in,all we really have to do out is to be around each other every waking moment..haha!(mengade~)..Anyhow,thanks for everything dear..

2nd Gondolaz..

Garfield and Odie~

Hye~

I just took this blog from my friendster's blog where i found that, there's much better if i put all my posts here.. But then, this is the only post that i think..erm, suitable to be read again..:P

Hue3!! what im going to say.. okay, if u're really get into me, you'll know that im tooo obsess to..Treng,teng,teng..GARFIELD!wee!so, let me tell you some about my dearest fav cartoon character..hehe..(seriezly,xde keje~)

Erm, Garfield was born on the comics pages on June 19,1978.. The mastermind of cartoonist, Jim Davis is a humorous strip centered around the lives of a fat, lazy, cynical orange cat who loves lasagna, coffee and his remote control. And ya, his owner, the long suffering Jon and Odie, a sweet but dumb dog..(pity dog..he..)

To me, Garfield is a human in a cat suit because, Garfield loves TV and hates Monday..uhuh~ He rather pig out than workout..In fact, his passion for foods and sleep is matched only by his aversion to diet and exercise (he prefer lay-downs to sit-ups)he.. He'd like morning better if they started later. Coffee, 'strong enough to sit up and bark is the only way to start the day'. What could be more human?? And ya, basically, Garfield reminds me about my own behaviour..haha!!

Fat, lazy and loveable.. Garfield says and does the things that people would like to say and do..If only they could larr.. Well, we're made to feel guilty for overeating and sleep..(me,but i dunno you!gee..) but, Garfield defends our right to grab a jelly, donut and takes a looooong afternoon nap..but somehow, Garfield relieves our guilt and we love him for it..:)

Then, Garfield is also a quotable cat. Garfield is never at a loss for words. In fact, part of his appeal is his unique way of looking at the world. Among Garfield's more sage comments taht i can still recall are..'i'll rise,but i wont shine,never trust a smiling cat, im not overweight but im undertall'..bla,bla n bla.haha!!so,cute~

Hurm,whatelse?? xtau dah..hehe.. Well,really..i love it since when ya..erm,standard 3 kowt..(aul bace confirm ckp,suke2 je dajah 3..ntah2,dajah 2..):p..hik!
So,ok.. nothing much den..

x.o.x.o

1st Gondolaz..

Tido..tido..tido~

Hey, it's holiday!!weee..waaa~'sound too much is it?':P

A moment of joy it supposed to be because i was just finished the last final exam paper for this semester. Yet, somehow deep inside my heart, there was a hole of sadness and emptiness. Plus, i felt like to scream crazily~'Attention to all!i've finished all the exam papers!!yeay!!but hey, i just heard it inside me..Lol~

Gee, i got nothing to write as i don't fully plan about my holiday this time..as i have cancelled
my trip to Langkawi tomorrow with my buddies..hu..:'(

But it's still okay enough because what is most important thing to do in this blissful holiday is, i do get to sleep in everyday..so, no complaints here..hehe..

p/s: Going to miss him so much!take care ya my dear pumpkin:))..